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Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 6:53 pm
by lindad_amato
Chapters 4 and 5 of Part I

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2011 3:01 pm
by realiz
It is interesting here to see Arial through Dirk. Before Dirk, Arial seems to have little appeal as far as being an attractive woman, evidenced in the fact that she was so desperate for a marriage that she accepted a proposal from a man she did not love. Dirk's attraction to her gives her a new dimension. My perspective of her vigil was a desire for proof that he really was dead and with that evidence she could move forward knowing the depth of his disgust, but also knowing that the truth of it would never be known by any other.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 3:47 pm
by giselle
I think 'the vigil' serves to develop Oates' theme, which I'm speculating has to do with the human soul and how it might play a part in love and marriage. Ariah goes through the vigil for a man she doesn't love and suffers physically and emotionally but she keeps going. She had to have a compelling reason for doing this. This could be explained as a reaction to the trauma of the wedding night and the suicide of her husband but I think there is more to it. She has talked about marriage as an exchange of souls and the 'soul' appears again later in the book at a critical moment with Dirk.

Dirk is becoming a central character and plays a key role in the vigil as a support person who evidently cares about her and is there to catch Ariah when she faints upon seeing and identifying her dead husband's body. I think this is more than romantic foreshadowing but is a transfer of 'her' (or her soul maybe) from one man to the other. I think its important for her to be sure of her husbands death so she can metaphorically retrieve her soul from this man that she did not love and who did not love her. Her rather hysterical laugh when she saw his body may have refected some relief but also a sense of regaining her soul, something in her mind she had given away in error. Her faint could have been provoked by trauma but also by feeling that she had gathered herself and become intact once again.

Lot of theorizing here that may turn out to be completely wrong ... but I am watching to see if 'soul' is developed as a theme as I read on.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:00 pm
by lindad_amato
Giselle,
I agree. The novel seems to definitely have something to do with souls and saving them.

We'll have to see how things work out for the characters later in the book.

In The Search we're introduced to Dirk as a man who can solve problems and is respected by his peers. It will be interesting to see what happens to him and his soul.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:26 pm
by giselle
I'm wondering how much further people have read ahead at this point? I've finished Part I but I am holding back on saying stuff so I don't ruin the story .. but I have a feeling that others have read further ahead too ... so maybe we should move on and complete Part I?

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 6:41 pm
by lindad_amato
Folks,
Please feel free to jump in and discuss any chapters of the book that you may want. Now that we have it more segmented, the folks who have not read further along can just avoid the later chapter discussions if they don't want to know what happens.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Fri Sep 16, 2011 11:26 am
by realiz
I'm about halfway through part 2.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:23 pm
by smileyface123123
I believe Ariah was in a state of disbelief in these chapters. The way she wandered around searching for Gilbert in the lobby showed her denial. I think she ran from the truth by going to the falls each day searching for his body.

I enjoyed seeing her through Dirk's pov. It made her more interesting and mysterious. The way he fell for her showed she must have some qualities that attracted him rather than just being the pathetic wife whose husband killed himself.

She had a quiet strength about her as she held her vigil. Dirk had to admire that about her, the way she held up on her own, leaning on no one, not even her family.

Dirk had to warn himself, you are not falling in love. It will be interesting to see where this goes.

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2011 2:36 am
by Chris OConnor
Why do I get the feeling that Dirk is going to eventually go over the falls too? Am I nuts?

Re: Part I: Widow Bride: The Search, Widow Bride: The Vigil

Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2011 9:19 am
by Suzanne
Did anyone else pick up that Gilbert may have been in love with a man? Ariah mentions that she hopes one day she will be close enough to her husband to be able to call him the personal nickname of "Gill" just like Gilbert's male friend from school does. Gilbert does discribe this friend with affection and emotion. If this is true, Gilbert went over the falls because of love.