I do think this is a thought-provoking piece. It seems like a 'man's' poem to me, because men don't have conversations with one another about 'feelings' and they certainly didn't in Matthew Arnold's day. It would have been considered frightfully bad form.
They talk about football and cars.
I know that this is about the inability, not just the unwillingness, to express ones deepest wonderings. I don't think it's about emotions, do you?
I like the bit about wondering where we've come from and where we are going.
Sort of viewing myself from outside and saying 'Why is she doing this?'But often, in the world’s most crowded streets,
But often, in the din of strife,
There rises an unspeakable desire
After the knowledge of our buried life;
A thirst to spend our fire and restless force
In tracking out our true, original course;
A longing to inquire
Into the mystery of this heart which beats
So wild, so deep in us—to know
Whence our lives come and where they go.
All the rushing about described by Matthew Arnold .....is the reason we are told in our hectic lives....to practise Mindfulness....like the Bhuddists.
But one learns not to share ones musings......'cos those who do, unless they are poets.....are often crashing bores.
Shakespeare wrote:I knew the mass of men conceal’d
Their thoughts, for fear that if reveal’d
They would by other men be met
With blank indifference, or with blame reprov’d;
To thine own self be true, thou cans't not then be false to any man.
And I always, think, 'well, I would be true to myself, if I knew who I was'.
I remember two others and myself, at work in an antique centre, having a conversation about this.And long we try in vain to speak and act
Our hidden self, and what we say and do
Is eloquent, is well—but ’t is not true!
Lovely, but very brash young man said, 'I think you should just be yourself when dealing with customers'.
I said, 'Well, I don't know who I am really'.
Rita, my contemporary, said, 'I don't know who I am either'.
Andy, the brash young man said, 'You're both basket cases'.