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Are you still a virgin if...

 
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Are you still a virgin if you have only had oral or anal sex?
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 4:11 am    Post subject: Are you still a virgin if... Reply with quote
Are you still a virgin if you have only had oral or anal sex?
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 11:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
If you don't break the cherry your still a virgin lol Laughing at least thats my opinion!!!!!!
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 11:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
That depends… are we talking pitching or receiving?

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
No!

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Technically yes, since the breaking of the hymen is what is generally accepted as the signs of not being a virgin. You could lie like a cheap rug (or something else) about oral and anal to all but those who gave & received.

You are certainly not virginal, but still technically a virgin! A case of having your cake (or something else) and eating it too!

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
That is just bull-poop, as well as being nonsense. You and Bill Clinton should get together.

By your theory: a boy and a girl (or two boys) could be having anal sex regularly and still be virgins? I don't think so.

A virgin is someone who has never had the experience (not only of sex, either). So giving or receiving a BJ doesn't count as sex? C'mon, Brilliant, that just doesn't work (and it didn't work for Bill, either, if you recall).

But I like the fact that someone could be having anal sex and getting BJ's from his girlfriend, and he and she would still be virgins. Wait until I tell my mother!

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 1:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
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That is just bull-poop, as well as being nonsense. You and Bill Clinton should get together.

By your theory: a boy and a girl (or two boys) could be having anal sex regularly and still be virgins? I don't think so.

A virgin is someone who has never had the experience (not only of sex, either). So giving or receiving a BJ doesn't count as sex? C'mon, Brilliant, that just doesn't work (and it didn't work for Bill, either, if you recall).

But I like the fact that someone could be having anal sex and getting BJ's from his girlfriend, and he and she would still be virgins. Wait until I tell my mother!

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I guess we should find and agree upon an official definition of virginity. Do we go by a moral, religious or scientific definition? Is it "the copulation, stupid" or just any old sexually related experience. Is masturbation a los of virginity?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 7:21 pm    Post subject: Virginity Reply with quote
You are still a virgin. I agree with Mr. P. in that copulation must occur in order to disqualify one from virginity.
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 12:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Anal sex (a penis penetrating an anus) is copulation, whether done between two men or a man and a woman (or two women with substitute penises, I guess).

Seriously, if two gay men live together for years and have anal and oral sex on a regular basis, do you really believe they are still virgins because no hymen has been broken? That's just silly.

And what about this: my girlfriend will do anything except vaginal intercourse - anything! Is she still a virgin? Am I? (After all, I have never penetrated her vagina with my penis (no hymens broken), but have done other things in that area which pleased her (and me) immensely.

And remember, many young girls lose their hymens long before they have intercourse with a man - sports, horseback riding, self-gratification, etc. These girls are still virgins, yet have lost their hymens.

This is like beating a dead horse, isn't it? Enough.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 6:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
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And remember, many young girls lose their hymens long before they have intercourse with a man - sports, horseback riding, self-gratification, etc. These girls are still virgins, yet have lost their hymens.

This is like beating a dead horse, isn't it? Enough.

Have a great day, everyone.

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Yes, and in a different age, they would never have found a husband if there was no way to show her virginity. She may have even been killed. The same girl who decided to smoke cigars would have lived, married and been happy.

Dead horse. This is in the joke forum and was supposed to be light-hearted. You seem to be taking it a bit too seriously IMO.

So. IS masturbation included? It is most definitly a sexual experience.

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