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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Thank you Chris...for taking the time to post all this.....it does matter to me....you are honest....and I appreciate that.....and I will read through it again tomorrow.

I am not being....ingratiating....(talking pretty) which is what I am reading between the lines of your post. Ingratiating Moi????

OK - My Mum was a Spiritualist Medium and talked to Ghosts....my Dad was a drunk and talked to Lamposts.

They both left me alone....to sort it out for myself. I was an only child....and, in fact my Mum and Dad were only married for a couple years....so I was actually just the result of a quick bonk.

Well, I went to Church..and I went to a Church of England School......so, yes...that will have had an affect on my thinking patterns....although very vague...because there is nothing very fundamental or radical about the Church of England, believe me.

I did read about Comparative Religions......and thought a lot over the years. I also read a lot about Marxism, Communism and Socialism......Because I lived with my Mum who was quite a 'Lefty'....she brought me up until I was 18 when I married. My Mum was always much more interested in Politics than religion.

So, Chris.....I suppose I was just born this way.

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It is insulting to hear you talk like this. As if atheism is a byproduct of abuse. How wrong you are. Atheism is almost always a byproduct of exceptional intelligence and a well-rounded education.


I apologise......I see that I have offended you here.... Sorry!!!! (I AM sorry....I am not just being ingratiating.)But I was only commenting on certain documentaries which have appeared on our TV recently which made me think that if I had had those parents...I would have been an atheist just out of anger. I wouldn't though, because I couldn't.

I do not have exceptional intelligence.....although I do know that I am no dumbo!!!! And I did pass my scholarship and go to Grammar School...but my GCE Subjects were, English, Art and Music.....because they were the ones which I would pass.....and get the desired certificate for.....If I had taken Maths, Chemistry and Physics....I would not have gained any certificates....therefore, I guess my education was not so well-rounded.

If it only takes exceptional intelligence and education to sort out the human race......the rest of us....who are of only average intelligence and don't have the privilidge of a well-rounded education....(.in fact some people don't get a 'formal' education at all).......we, the rest of us, are going to get pushed around......

I don't like being pushed around physically.....but no one, no one is going to push me around mentally....I am a freethinker....it is a lonely business.







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PostPosted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
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We're not talking about sorting out the human species. This is about understanding how to think clearly and critically and it seems to take exceptional intelligence to do so.
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Following this discussion, and participating a little, has made me more aware of the truth of the old observation that discussion of religion
heightens divisions like nothing else (except possibly politics). I'm thankful that around Booktalk in general, discussions do not take on the tone of battle but are usually genuinely friendly, even when viewpoints are far apart. It may be true that I shy away from confrontation more than is called for, but I still have to think that darkening the dividing lines between us is the worst thing for us. I know that it might be said that to attack someone's beliefs is not to attack the person, but I don't believe it is really possible for us humans to do one without doing the other.

I know also that, Post-9/11, many think the ante has been jacked up around this subject of religion. It is no longer, the thinking goes, a matter of live and let live when it comes to belief in the supernatural, not when maniacs who believe they will be rewarded eternally for mass murder are preying on us. But doesn't that situation calls for a specific response against specific people, and not a blanket condemnation of any thought/belief one might judge to be "irrational"? There is not a monolithic quality to this matter of belief, faith, or whatever you want to call it, that justifies labeling all forms of it as a general threat to well-being. At the extreme, calls to stamp out forms of thought do bring to mind totalitarianism. Short of that extreme, calling out a person for the foolishness or irrationality of an idea seems to go against an ideal that we have at least attempted to implement, that of personal freedom of thought.

I am aware of the vituperation and discrimination that has long been directed towards people with no belief in a diety. So I admit that it can be hard for atheists to exercise tolerance when the same hasn't been extended to them.
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As if atheism is a byproduct of abuse. How wrong you are. Atheism is almost always a byproduct of exceptional intelligence and a well-rounded education. Atheism is not what is left behind when you remove all the good stuff. Atheism is the good stuff. It is only when you can extract the mental virus of faith that you even have the opportunity to explore the idea of atheism.


Wow! This is soooooooooo awesome! I especially feel that your words on what atheism is and is not are absolutely beautiful, Chris.
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Tarav, you are being ingratiating!!!!

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 5:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
I am sorry that you feel that way, Penelope. I am not and do not need to try to gain Chris' favor by kissing butt. First of all, I know I am already in his favor! LOL My comments on his post were simply my feelings put into words. Tidying up is not necessary, thanks.
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No, she certainly did not. You can't talk to something that doesn't exist. If your mother really believed she was talking to ghosts she was delusional.

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I consider your father's problem far easier to treat than your mother's.

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If it only takes exceptional intelligence and education to sort out the human race......the rest of us....who are of only average intelligence and don't have the privilidge of a well-rounded education....(.in fact some people don't get a 'formal' education at all).......we, the rest of us, are going to get pushed around......


This doesn't make sense.

1. We're a species not a race.

2. I never made the argument that it takes exceptional intelligence and education to sort out the human race.

3. Sorting out the human race, if one existed, is vague and meaningless. What does it mean to sort out a race or even a species?

4. "the rest of us....who are of only average intelligence"

Actually, this too doesn't make sense to me. The rest cannot and are not of average intelligence. Only those at a specific point on the intelligence distribution curve can be said to be of average intelligence. About 50% of the general population is below average intelligence and 50% above average intelligence.

I think it has been shown repeatedly that religious people are more clustered on the lower end of the intelligence curve. That is my whole point. The more intelligent you are the higher the probability that you will not believe in a God or gods. If you are of extremely low intelligence you are almost certainly going to believe in some sort of hocus pocus. Ignorance and faith go hand in hand. Belief in a God or gods is inversely proportional to intelligence and education.

Yes, there are extremely bright and educated people that believe in a God or gods, but we’re not talking about individuals. This is about overall statistics. I can find you a Rhodes Scholar that believes in Bigfoot, but this is a statistical outlier. Most Bigfoot believers are not very bright.

5. "we, the rest of us, are going to get pushed around..."

This is not true. Atheists tend to be intelligent and well-educated, yet we are pushed around by the ignorant masses. Atheists have to live in a world where grown adults kneel and worship imaginary gods. When we speak up about the mass delusions around us we are attacked verbally, politically and even physically. Atheists are controlled and pushed around by dangerously ignorant, oppressive and abusive people. We are the minority struggling for equality.

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Neither do I. Unfortunately, atheists have to keep their mouths shut or they will be pushed, struck, hit, stabbed and murdered by religious fools.

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Do you consider introducing sound arguments or counter-arguments to be pushing you around mentally? I think you need this sort of pushing around. So do I. Rip my arguments apart. Please.

Yet I'd LOVE for that argument to come along. I'd LOVE to join the flock of believers because it sounds so damn beautiful and sweet and wonderful. But I refuse to disengage my brain and believe nonsense just because the process of believing makes me feel all gooey inside. The only way I can see me accepting religious claims would be if I suffered severe brain damage and could no longer think critically. I’d have to lose my ability to differentiate between fact and fantasy to accept the idea that a loving God created cancer, tsunamis, and rapists.

We all need to be pushed around mentally. BookTalk.org was SPECIFICALLY created to push people around mentally. I challenge anyone to push me around mentally. Make me think. Back me up against the wall and slap my silly arguments into submission. This is how we maintain intellectual integrity. This is what being a freethinker is all about.
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I don't think you need to be ultra intelligent to be an atheist and I don't think you have to be dim to be a believer. I think there are dim and intelligent people in both camps. And probably in equal numbers.

I must have been feeling a bit vulnerable when I was talking about being pushed around. After all, I swallowed the religious guff, hook line and sinker from an early age. That has made me angry at times, although now I'm not angry about it anymore. But I am careful about what I 'take on board'. Kicking and screaming all the way......so to speak.

My mum didn't think she was talking to ghosts....but she did think she was contacting spirits in other realms......I don't know what she was contacting.

It is different in Britain....it is 'cool' to be an atheist......and extremely 'uncool' to be a Christian. A Buddhist is just about acceptable, if one 'must' label oneself.

I get prickly, because if there is ever a play or soap on TV with a religious character involved. That character always turns out to be either a complete lunatic or an evil entity. They never show a religious person as a normal, kind and functioning human being. They do lots of comedies about CofE Vicars and Roman Catholic Clergy.....the clergy are always shown as being ridiculous. Well, Chris, you would agree with that.....but it makes me wonder what subliminal message they are trying to feed us.

This will make you laugh......do you remember when Hugh Grant got caught with that prostitute lady whilst he was in the US? Well, when I saw the headlines....'Hugh Grant caught with Hooker!' I hadn't heard of Hugh Grant and I was so relieved when I found out he was an actor and not a member of the clergy!!!

Well, as you know, I don't like our Churches or our Clergy, or our religious system, but I am afraid of them being replaced by something much worse.

To have no interest, or worse to believe that we have no spiritual side, makes life seem particularly meaningless to me. I think the spiritual development is all important....especially with tragedies like cancer, the tsunami etc. You see, that is the difference between us, you see those as a reason to reject 'God' or spirituality outright - but I see them as making spirituality necessary. In the sense of inner strength.

I am not able to rip your arguments to pieces. You might be right, but I just can't 'do' atheist or I lose my momentum. Zest for living.
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Tarav - I have apologised to you on another thread.......

and admitted that I am the one who should do the tidying up. Embarassed
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I can hear your plea....we are part of the same species, not race.

The only way I can begin to explain it Chris...is that...you can't see radio waves.....the only way you know they are there is because the radio recieves them and makes sense of them.

Well....spiritual waves are there....the only way I know they are there is because I can receive them......and so can you...because, honestly, I know there is nothing special about me....but if I tell you what convinces me, you will say that I am just delusional....

Just as if a person with sight lived among a species of blind people.....he would never be able to convince them......it is there....and you can tune in.

But it is nothing to do with Christianity, Islam.....it is just about nature...it is natural....like radio waves are just a natural phenomenon.

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First of all you're wrong about how we know what we know about radio waves. But I'm not going to spend time explaining to you what radio waves are and how we create, detect and measure them. Google it if you're interested.

But let's pretend what you say is correct. Let's pretend that the only way we know radio waves are there is because our radios receive them and make sense of them. Are you honestly saying that listening to classical music on the radio deserves to be compared to the spiritual waves you think you receive?

If 100 people were in a room together and all had portable radios tuned to the same channel/frequency wouldn't they hear the same thing? Isn't this some sort of evidence that radio waves are a real phenomenon and clearly there is something objectively verifiable and testable about their nature?

What can you tell me about these spiritual waves you think you can receive? Can anyone else receive the same exact wave at the same exact time? If so you ought to contact James Randi and try to win the $1,000,000 he has been offering for years and years. No, not a single other human being will receive those same spiritual waves. Why not? Because they only exist in your head and imagination. Radio waves may be invisible to the human eye, but they are an element of objective reality. Your spiritual waves are not measurable or detectable.
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What can you tell me about these spiritual waves you think you can receive?


Chris, "spiritual waves" and the earlier "vibrations" are popular terms for unconscious psychological effects:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ideomotor_effect

http://www.quackwatch.com/01QuackeryRelatedTopics/ideomotor.html
How People Are Fooled by Ideomotor Action

In his notebooks Thoreau referred to these effects as "transcendentals" and spent his life in an attempt to explain them.

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Thomas, thats for the link. I've always found Ouji boards intriguing, but have long understood how they work. It is still fascinating that the average person sitting in front of one thinks something magical is happening. An interesting experiment with Ouji boards is to blind fold the users, flip the board 180 degrees, and then watch the spirits somehow not know the board was flipped. The users will move their hands to the same letter places as if the board were in the standard position. The end result is nothing was spelled correctly.

Did that make sense? I am typing fast!

With that said I am not sure how you are relating Penelope's statement about spiritual waves to this effect. Are you saying that people that experience spiritual waves are really experiencing the power of the human brain to create imaginary things?
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With that said I am not sure how you are relating Penelope's statement about spiritual waves to this effect. Are you saying that people that experience spiritual waves are really experiencing the power of the human brain to create imaginary things?


Chris, the ideomotor effect is a real psychological effect from suggestion. Dr. Hyman says:

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Under a variety of circumstances, our muscles will behave unconsciously in accordance with an implanted expectation. What ma