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PostPosted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 12:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
OK Mr. P..... it is all my fault....it usually is....


Did you know that I was responsible for World War II?

For some one who tries to be kind and look at things from other peoples' perspective.....I do seem to cause a lot of trouble.

Anyway....I am not going to argue with two of you.....because two to one isn't fair...... Doc
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OK Mr. P..... it is all my fault....it usually is....


Did you know that I was responsible for World War II?

For some one who tries to be kind and look at things from other peoples' perspective.....I do seem to cause a lot of trouble.

Anyway....I am not going to argue with two of you.....because two to one isn't fair...... Doc


Now lets not get all "martyr-y" here!! I was just pointing out a source of miscommunication. Anyway, I have not really seen you trying to look at it from our side...from an atheist POV. You seem pretty set that if someone cannot 'feel their soul', they should not 'rise to power'...

Not sure who you are pointing too, but in the USA, if you avow a disbelief, you are rising nowhere!

I do not see you trying to see the other side at all. I have been on the other side, and that is why I turned away. I never felt a soul, I never could accept what I was fed at church. Then I realized that was because there was really nothing there aside from a blind desire for it to BE there.

I wanted to stay out of this conversation and pretty much ignored it for a while. These conversations usually go nowhere. I entered to clarify a source of miscommunication, intending to stay away from the atheism v theism/spiritualism/yada yada...but you seem to have taken that as me pointing a finger at you. Come now.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
I too was a believer long ago. It wasn't until my 15th year that I had the courage to actually say, "You know....I don't believe this stuff. I guess I am an atheist."

I remember the day and the moment and exactly where I was quite well. How liberating. I was proud. And the feelings of having done the right thing have increased tremendously over time. So much so that I will eventually be launching an international campaign to help educate the world about atheism and how it is a good choice and one to be proud of.
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Well, I have also said that I don't believe the Bible and the whole Christian Myth.....but I just haven't felt the need to dump all spirituality into the bin wholesale.

Having said that, I was never force-fed religion as a child.....perhaps if I had, I would have had just as angry a reaction as you.

In fact, it is true....I would be very angry.....

I have seen some films about American Evangelicals and the way they browbeat their children into believing........it is quite shocking and looks to me like a form of abuse in many cases.
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Well, I have also said that I don't believe the Bible and the whole Christian Myth.....but I just haven't felt the need to dump all spirituality into the bin wholesale.

Having said that, I was never force-fed religion as a child.....perhaps if I had, I would have had just as angry a reaction as you.

In fact, it is true....I would be very angry.....

I have seen some films about American Evangelicals and the way they browbeat their children into believing........it is quite shocking and looks to me like a form of abuse in many cases.


I agree. It is a form of abuse. We have said that many times here on Booktalk and some others, who are no longer with us, castigated us for saying so. But as a form of abuse, should it be punishable by law like other abuse crimes? That was where the waters got really muddy (or so we were told).

How about the Christian Scientists (what an oxymoron) refusal to give their children medical care that can save their lives, instead opting for prayer?

And just to clarify, I am NOT angry because I was force fed anything. The feeding just did not work, and it showed me just how silly the religion was. I however have extrapolated that feeling out to all forms of spiritualism/religious faith. Once one made no sense, the others naturally followed.

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Well, you are wrong.....

You could take another look at other forms of faith....but you don't need to.....because life has a way of hitting you in the eye....if you don't choose to see.

I like you both very much....so I hope it 'hits you in the eye' gently.

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Well, you are wrong.....

You could take another look at other forms of faith....but you don't need to.....because life has a way of hitting you in the eye....if you don't choose to see.

I like you both very much....so I hope it 'hits you in the eye' gently.

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"Well, you are wrong..." So definitive a statement.

It certainly does not look like you are trying to see it from the other side at all. Does it?

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Dear Mr. P

Because I am a human being......I am trying to see the question from 'both' sides...honestly I am......

I am corporal....I am earthly and of this world....but the trouble is...'I know'....that I am also a spiritual being.......

And it is easy to prove the 'corporal' part with science.......but impossible to prove the 'spiritual' part.......I would not wish to reject either part of me! So I can only 'accept' myself....and try to gain some sense of 'balance'.

But if I am aware of this spiritual side of me.....I am also aware of the spiritual side of you..........and I am so sorry if I make you feel exasperated.......
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Whether you admit to yourself or not your conception of a deity comes from a source. What is the source? Did your parents indoctrinate you into a particular religion? Was it a friend? Now back up even further and examine where their beliefs started. At some point you get to the Christian Bible.

Or are you special where you had a personal experience with a god? Has a god floated down and spoken directly to you? Probably not. So you not believing the Bible and the whole Christian myth intrigues me, seeing as your conception of God, more than likely, has its origins in that book.

Why do you think it is rational to pick and weed through a book written or at least inspired by a deity? If you attribute ANY of the Bible to a divine superhero then what gives you the right or logical sense to discard the parts you don't like? Are you smarter than God?

Since you claim to not believe the Bible or the Christian myth I'd like to hear your reasons for this. The very moment you're done thinking up the reasons, stop, don't type a thing, close your eyes, and think about it. Your reasons are the same reasons I discard the entire damn book.

A lot of theists say the same thing as you said. They are almost proud to let the world know that they don't buy the whole Bible thing. The "Christian myth" just doesn't make sense to them. But if they could just step back and look at what they DO believe they would probably see that their beliefs are no more rational.

So what is it? A "universal mind?" Is this what you believe in? Astrology? The Earth Goddess? Or do you believe in a God that you like to not define because you're smart enough to know that the moment you define that God the moment you have other smart people able to quickly knock apart your faith. What is it? If you don't believe in the Bible or the Christian myth what do you believe? I'd bet it really is a form of Christianity. You've taken the cool fun stuff and thrown away the boring rituals or stuff that embarrasses you to be connected with. But why? How do you know that those parts aren't the divinely inspired words of the same deity that inspired the parts you accept? Hey, what if the whole damn thing is bullshit? ...not just the parts you personally tossed out.

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Having said that, I was never force-fed religion as a child.....perhaps if I had, I would have had just as angry a reaction as you.


Who are you talking to when you say this? Who was force-fed religion? I sure wasn't. I force-fed reality to myself. It was the acceptance of reality that pushed religion out the door. I wasn't rebelling against religion. My father was an atheist too. My mother died when I was 6 years old. Nobody ever forced religion on me.

It is insulting to hear you talk like this. As if atheism is a byproduct of abuse. How wrong you are. Atheism is almost always a byproduct of exceptional intelligence and a well-rounded education. Atheism is not what is left behind when you remove all the good stuff. Atheism is the good stuff. It is only when you can extract the mental virus of faith that you even have the opportunity to explore the idea of atheism.

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Fine, this is lovely. But it is irrelevant.

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I agree.

Simply introducing a child to the God concept is abuse. Parents don't have to browbeat their kids to abuse them. Children are like sponges. If you bring your kids to a church and tell them that the church is true they're going to believe you. This is child abuse. Bringing children to church is child abuse.

What if you hear about a group of parents who bring their children to a school that teaches them that aliens living on Mars are their real parents? And those aliens have special vision so they can see everything the child does and they will someday reward or possibly incinerate that child in a furnace.

First of all I hope you can admit that close to 100% of children would believe the bullshit. Evolution sees to it that the young learn from their parents. They don't have a choice.

So would this constitute child abuse? You're damn right it would. And the government would step in and take those abused children away from the parents immediately.

So why is it ok to teach children an even more horrible and disgusting belief system? Knowing that kids will believe anything their parents tell them (with a straight face) why do we tolerate it when parents lie to their kids and teach them that Jesus loves them, he died for their sins, and someday they may make it to heaven?

Those poor kids now have no chance of shaking free from the disease that is faith. They are, in essence, completely screwed for a long time. And only the most intelligent of the bunch will ever have the strength and fortitude to abandon the myth of God and accept the real world for what it is. This is child abuse. And it disgusts me.
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No, you are. Smile So who wins? Me or you? You say I'm wrong and I say you are. Let's flip a coin.

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Unfortunately, it is only faith and illogical beliefs that come flying by randomly and hit you in the eye. A real education takes hard work and intellectual integrity. It is no wonder faith has never flown by and smacked me in the eye.

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Thank you Chris...for taking the time to post all this.....it does matter to me....you are honest....and I appreciate that.....and I will read through it again tomorrow.

I am not being....ingratiating....(talking pretty) which is what I am reading between the lines of your post. Ingratiating Moi????

OK - My Mum was a Spiritualist Medium and talked to Ghosts....my Dad was a drunk and talked to Lamposts.

They both left me alone....to sort it out for myself. I was an only child....and, in fact my Mum and Dad were only married for a couple years....so I was actually just the result of a quick bonk.

Well, I went to Church..and I went to a Church of England School......so, yes...that will have had an affect on my thinking patterns....although very vague...because there is nothing very fundamental or radical about the Church of England, believe me.

I did read about Comparative Religions......and thought a lot over the years. I also read a lot about Marxism, Communism and Socialism......Because I lived with my Mum who was quite a 'Lefty'....she brought me up until I was 18 when I married. My Mum was always much more interested in Politics than religion.

So, Chris.....I suppose I was just born this way.

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I apologise......I see that I have offended you here.... Sorry!!!! (I AM sorry....I am not just being ingratiating.)But I was only commenting on certain documentaries which have appeared on our TV recently which made me think that if I had had those parents...I would have been an atheist just out of anger. I wouldn't though, because I couldn't.

I do not have exceptional intelligence.....although I do know that I am no dumbo!!!! And I did pass my scholarship and go to Grammar School...but my GCE Subjects were, English, Art and Music.....because they were the ones which I would pass.....and get the desired certificate for.....If I had taken Maths, Chemistry and Physics....I would not have gained any certificates....therefore, I guess my education was not so well-rounded.

If it only takes exceptional intelligence and education to sort out the human race......the rest of us....who are of only average intelligence and don't have the privilidge of a well-rounded education....(.in fact some people don't get a 'formal' education at all).......we, the rest of us, are going to get pushed around......

I don't like being pushed around physically.....but no one, no one is going to push me around mentally....I am a freethinker....it is a lonely business.







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We're not talking about sorting out the human species. This is about understanding how to think clearly and critically and it seems to take exceptional intelligence to do so.
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Following this discussion, and participating a little, has made me more aware of the truth of the old observation that discussion of religion
heightens divisions like nothing else (except possibly politics). I'm thankful that around Booktalk in general, discussions do not take on the tone of battle but are usually genuinely friendly, even when viewpoints are far apart. It may be true that I shy away from confrontation more than is called for, but I still have to think that darkening the dividing lines between us is the worst thing for us. I know that it might be said that to attack someone's beliefs is not to attack the person, but I don't believe it is really possible for us humans to do one without doing the other.

I know also that, Post-9/11, many think the ante has been jacked up around this subject of religion. It is no longer, the thinking goes, a matter of live and let live when it comes to belief in the supernatural, not when maniacs who believe they will be rewarded eternally for mass murder are preying on us. But doesn't that situation calls for a specific response against specific people, and not a blanket condemnation of any thought/belief one might judge to be "irrational"? There is not a monolithic quality to this matter of belief, faith, or whatever you want to call it, that justifies labeling all forms of it as a general threat to well-being. At the extreme, calls to stamp out forms of thought do bring to mind totalitarianism. Short of that extreme, calling out a person for the foolishness or irrationality of an idea seems to go against an ideal that we have at least attempted to implement, that of personal freedom of thought.

I am aware of the vituperation and discrimination that has long been directed towards people with no belief in a diety. So I admit that it can be hard for atheists to exercise tolerance when the same hasn't been extended to them.
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