You may well be right Realiz.
As this is a one-sided story we'll never know. It would be so interesting for the reader to have Lolita's point of view-- on the other hand there are a lot of advantages to having only Humbert's viewpoint: it gives a unity to the novel, it gives his obsessiveness an all-pervasive quality, and above all it makes the book mysterious, as we keep wondering who she was and what she thought.