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How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christmas? 
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Post How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christmas?
Hello! This is my first post, but I have a good time lurking here.
I wanted to pose a question that I, as an atheist, have been asked countless times. I would imagine many of you have as well.
Why do you celebrate Christmas if you're an atheist?

Well, I who was once was a christian, do not really have any problem with the answer, eventhough some curious christians, and relative believers have a problem hearing it.
For me , Christmas has been more about giving and receiving than about religion. I will admit the receiving part has a lot to do with it. Not to mention a great excuse to over indulge.

As a child and a teen I tried to find religious meaning in it , and I guess that at 38, I probably find more nostalgia in Christmas than anything.
I like to point out the overwhelming comsumerism, which I feel totally cancels out any assumption that I should feel conflicted over the "contradiction" that an atheist can celebrate christmas.
Why should the sentiment of chistmas not be embraced by anyone who chooses?
There is nothing at all wrong with one the human giving to another human. Where would we be if we didn't?
It doesn't need to have any religious meaning at all. It isn't even the the actual birthdate of Jesus, is it?

Besides, we can't blame Jesus for the christianity.
It wasn't his fault.
He was just a free thinker with a great message, that was lost on all those, who, with their own agenda, re-invented him.
Personally, If I were Jesus, I'd be pissed.

So, I know this question has most likely been posted before. But indulge me. I am truly interested; besides, I don't get to meet very many open minded people in the great state of Missouri. Sadly, since it is indeed a great state.
How do you, as an atheist, celebrate or not celebrate this very misunderstood day?

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Post Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christmas?
Dear Seldom:

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Besides, we can't blame Jesus for the christianity.
It wasn't his fault.
He was just a free thinker with a great message, that was lost on all those, who, with their own agenda, re-invented him.
Personally, If I were Jesus, I'd be pissed.


What a first post! :) Classic!

Despite being an atheist, I enjoy Christmas as much as I ever have, though I find all the consumerism tiresome. Even depressing.

I like every aspect of the holiday. I even enjoy the nativity story. I've been toying with the idea of adding a creche scene to our holiday decorations -- it's a great story, and, as an amateur astronomer, I like the celestial tie-in. I think I may have said this in another post, but when people ask me why, as an atheist, I find that enjoyable, my first response is I like the Lord of the Rings without believing in Sauron. It's called a willing suspension of disbelief...

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Post Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christmas?
Yeah..... thats what happens when I have a few too many glasses of wine. I kind of go off on little tangents.
It's unavoidable.







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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
Dear Seldom:

I meant that as a compliment. Saying "We can't blame Jesus for Christianity" is clever and original. And true.

It would make an awesome bumper sticker...

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PS: Elly and I enjoy wine too. We tend to favor full-bodied domestic reds in the $10 to $20 range. Last night we tried a 2005 McManis Cabernet, which is a terrific value at around $10. It's complex, has a lot of forward fruit, and a satisfying, balanced finish.

I apologize for not providing more detailed comments about the bottle. One of our college-aged nieces came to spend the night (she is helping Elly in the kitchen today), and we had the wine with pizza while watching Scrooged -- not the best environment for careful wine-tasting notes. ;) It's a bottle we will be trying again very soon, though.

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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
I just try to have as good a Saturnallia as possible given that the true meaning of the holiday (eat, drink, and be merry) has been taken over first by the Christians, and now by Santa Claus.




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I just try to have as good a Saturnallia as possible given that the true meaning of the holiday (eat, drink, and be merry) has been taken over first by the Christians, and now by Santa Claus.


So true, Christmas has nothing to do with Christianity in reality. The Christians have even banned Christmas on several occasions as it used to be a time of debauchery and not very spiritual at all.




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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
I don't celebrate Christmas. I celebrate Giftmas, which I have blatantly stolen from the Christians, just as they blatantly stole it from the pagans.




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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
It's not a problem for our fearless leaders...

edge.org/documents/xmas06_index.html




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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
This year we celebrated pack-the-house-mas, because we are moving to New York in a few days.

But I would say we normally celebrate the giftmas described by St. G

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Post Re: Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
That's a sad, little Charlie Brown christmas tree that Sam Harris is standing in front of. Although, I must say, he looks rather yummy in the picture. If only I could find me an atheist that looks like that.

Notice, too, of the left hands showing in the pictures, they both have wedding bands on. Another piece of religious symbolism.

BTW, I celebrate christmas with my family--presents and lots of food. And DH will be happy to know, I also went to christmas mass with them. The altar always looks beautiful this time of year.

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Post Re: How Do You As An Atheist Celebrate (or not) Christm
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Dear Seldom:

I meant that as a compliment.


Oh,yes I know. Thats the way I took it.::04
I just have a very dry sense of humor.
No, I was just commenting on my tendency to get a little loose with my opinions when I overindulge.

Although, it appears that I made a mistake in actually mentioning the word jesus, because I see my thread was moved to the Religion and Philosophy forum. Oh well.

Actually, it was just a way of stating that both christmas and religion have little to do with jesus, whether he existed or not.
There I go again. :o

As for my own taste in wine, I have been enjoying an Austrialian Shiraz. It has a lower histamine content than most red wines. Which means I wont have to take an anti-histamine to clear my sinuses.

I have wondered if it could have something to do with the Austrailian climate, or, as I suspect , the vineyards choice of fertilization.
Since as it describes on the back of the bottle, "...sun-drenched vinyards and leaping kangaroos perfectly co-exist in this wonderous habitat."...Hum.

Not a bad wine though.::149

Edited by: seldomseen68  at: 12/29/06 4:55 am



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